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Our Long Road to Adoption
We had a long road to adoption.
Once we finally decided to adopt we felt we
had made such a huge decision. We didn't realize that
opening the door to adoption lead to a whole host of other
questions. We went to many agency 'intro sessions', some of
them twice. Then we found out about Heritage from friends of
ours who had just adopted a happy and healthy baby boy
through Heritage.
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From our first meeting with the Heritage
staff, we felt like we had found the people to help us start
our family. Heritage really struck such a nice balance
between respect, compassion and advocacy for both birth
parents AND adoptive parents. This is what we found to be
different at Heritage. They listened to us, our concerns,
our fears, and we felt taken care of. We were told what to
expect, and we had so much help with our 'book'.
Our adoption went much faster than we
expected. We were more than ready, but we were really glad
that Heritage told us to plan on waiting longer, so we were
pleasantly surprised!! When we 'matched' with a birthmother
and went to meet her for the first time, to say we were
nervous was an understatement. We met the Heritage social
worker in the state of our adoption and she was just as much
of a pro as Deborah and the Portland office. Again, it was
clear she had a deep respect and compassion for the
birthmother, but she also cared about us. We had a great
first meeting, really hit it off with the birthmother, and
things continued to run smoothly from there.
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The birth plan, the adoption agreement, the
delivery, everything was guided by Heritage's experienced
leaders. We had a lot of fears about open adoption, but
Heritage worked with us on these concerns, and we have an
adoption plan which is open to the degree with which we are
all comfortable.
Our son is now 6 months old. He is the light
of our lives and we couldn't imagine our family any
differently. It is thanks to Heritage that we had a
successful adoption. We couldn't imagine being in any better
hands. If you're reading this, you are contemplating
adoption and have found Heritage's web-page. Make the call,
and get started- you won't be disappointed, and we hope that
6 months from now you have a happy and healthy addition to
your family.
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